I’ll start this off by saying that I hate that show. Secretly.
Because of jealousy, I hate it. It’s not fair that someone gets their entire home overhauled but whatever man. I’m sure they are worthy and such. I’ve watched it and cried along with the rest of the audience so I’m clearly and visibly moved and happy for them but…
I’ve often tried the Extreme Home Makeover theory to my home…meaning ME, and it only causes more debris and issues than worth it.
Seriously, I’m incounseling…Thankfully I have good people who aren’t over-zealous over-achievers.
Overhauls are good and needed but I’ve discovered, you have to be strategic and slow. Which means, one room, one box, one item held in your hands and heart at a time. And in my good opinion, when you take your time and go slow, the cleaning last and the room and the home stays more “tidy” if you are led.
Holy Spirit is good like that.
Real-life example: Currently I have been challenged to look at my response rate when it comes to my device because clearly it sucks. I don’t return calls or texts in a very timely manner **Real almost NEVER** and I know this is an are in my life that I’d like to clean up (for those of you who text or call me, you are clearly NOT surprised this is an issue in fact, some of you have loved me enough to POINT THIS OUT).
Seriously, WHY cannot I not do this? My lack of response is actually quite rude if I am to be honest.
So for the last few days, I have been intentionally sitting and answering texts as they come in. Grueling. Some of my responses only say, “Thank you. I love you. I loathe you.” Whatever. The point is, I’m looking at it closely and trying to place myself in others shoes and am putting forth effort. YEAH ME.
Lesson of the Day:
Overhauls aren’t all they are cracked up to me so go slow and be selective.
One thing at a time.
One day at a time.
Be kind to yourself. Yes.
But also be kind to others. If someone texts you, give them the common courtesy, text back.