I love snow days. I love the quiet-calm that they bring. I love the reset and regrouping that takes place within me when I can’t leave my home but the last few snow days we’ve had have been a blur so today I made the decision that I was going to be intentional with enjoying it. To the fullest.
I made homemade chicken corn soup.
Baked chocolate chip cookies and consequently, ate most **read ALL** of them.
Built a snowman with my kids.
Made them breakfast, lunch AND dinner.
Loaded my dishwasher. Twice.
Taught my sons fiancé how to bake homemade bread.
And since I’m the only person on the planet that has not watched Game of Thrones, I decided to catch up on some episodes.
I did these things among many others…but one thing I found out about my television watching abilities (though they are few) is that my idea of watching TV means I have the show on while I DO other things.
While I cook.
While I bake.
While I read, write, work, clean.
And it hit me, “Is this really watching at all?”
Because as long as I get the GIST of the show, I can say I watched it.
And then it hit me further, and it wasn’t just me trying to be overly introspective…
“What else in life have I been comfortable with just getting the gist of?”
I’m afraid to answer.
My family and friends?
I obviously have some thinking to do but I also don’t want to OVER think it so I’ll just leave it at this…
Don’t just settle for scraping the surface or standing in shallow waters. Go for the deep waters and you can’t always get there my multi-tasking your life away. Sometimes, ALL TIMES, when people are involved, it is best to focus and go beyond the gist. To go to their deeper blue seas. People are not TV. They are real and present and desire to be seen, heard and long for connection. Let’s bring this to real life: Put the cell phone down. Make eye contact when being talked to. Stop loading the dishwasher when your daughter walks in the room yelling, “Hey Mom!!!!”
Life’s Little Lesson of the day…
When life throws you a snow day, not only on the FIRST but SECOND day of Spring, you reset and regroup within yourself, WITH YOURSELF and those you love.
You swim out to deep blue waters.